In the era of wandering, those left-behind children who have no home
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This is a time of drifting, even a 9-year-old girl dares to "float". The report said that at the end of August, the 9-year-old Nanchong girl Xiaoxi had done a crazy thing: took 1,000 yuan in cash from her home, took her household registration book, and started from Nanchong’s hometown. After four transfers, she reached more than 2,000 kilometers. Outside Putian City, Fujian Province, where the city where her father and mother work. For this crazy adventure, Xiao Xi’s explanation is simple: she wants mom and dad, and wants to be with her mom and dad.
Xiao Xi’s “drift” is to be with his parents. However, this kind of "drift" is very worrying. A person takes a car from the town to Nanchong, then changes to the car to reach the state, from Dazhou to Fuzhou, and then takes the bus to Putian. At 11 o'clock in the evening, Xiao Xi just sounded the mother's dormitory. The door is more than 2,000 kilometers. After her daughter was safe, Ms. Wu wrote in the WeChat circle: I want to say, bear child, thank you for being safe, you gave your parents the most important lesson, parents will reflect, it is our concern for you. Not enough, sorry, baby! Mom and Dad love you forever...
In fact, it is not just the couple who are reflecting on this. It is our society. It is thousands of people who are parents, because there are more than 60 million left-behind children in China. The more frequently a teenager is in contact with his parents, the lower his chances of learning bad. This is the conclusion of the Guangzhou Blueprint published by the Guangzhou Development Research Institute of Guangzhou University. (The New Express on September 6, 2015) The question is how much time more than 60 million left-behind children can get in touch with their parents. Most parents can only go back to the Spring Festival to reunite with their children. How many meals can they eat with their children in a year? rice?
This is a stinging news: "Shaoyang, Hunan is now "no mother in more than 130 children without mother", no mother's child like root grass, the place called Huang Jingxiang, only in the compulsory education stage students There are 132 children in the state of “lost mother” – except for the mother’s normal death, the mothers of 116 children left them because of fleeing or remarriage. (August 10, 2015, Yangcheng Evening News) Huang Jingxiang Nature The conditions are bad, and many villages have difficulty drinking water. The poverty of the locality is the main reason for these mothers to leave. The most distressing thing is that these “children who have lost their mothers” have lost a complete home and their happiness is where to find them. ?
The children of "no motherland" are drifting away, which is only a microcosm of a large number of left-behind children. More often than not, children in many places are also working outside their parents, living in a long-term stay, and in a state of "home is missing." Their parents can be said to be in the city and in the countryside. And they are in the countryside, the heart is in the city, because their parents are there. Do you want to go to the city where your parents work? Parents of left-behind children are wandering away from home to make a living in order to earn more money and have a better life for their children, but they have erased the desire of the left-behind children to complete the family. Can you not be embarrassed? We will not forget the lyrics in "There is only a mother in the world": "There are only mothers in the world, no mother's children like roots, leaving the mother's arms, where is happiness?" Those left-behind children whose parents are not around for a long time, not only Like root grass, lack of family, it is easy to learn bad, and embark on the road of crime.
I remember the writer Xu Zechen said when talking about his book "Jerusalem", the sense of drift, this should be the characteristics of modern people. What we are most concerned about is the city that cannot be integrated, and the hometown that cannot go back. However, I am more concerned about the left-behind children who are in this “wandering age” but “no home”.
How many of these left-behind children can be disciplined by grandparents? It should be said that rebellious children account for the majority. Because of the lack of complete family education, and the backward rural education resources, the education of children can be imagined. For children in critical period of growth, lack of parental companionship and discipline, the recognition of "home" and the maintenance of parental emotions will gradually weaken, it is difficult to form a healthy personality, easy to become indifferent and selfish, and serious Will tear, will become irreparable regret.
The education level is not enough, and the left-behind experience is in the forefront. This kind of atmosphere is more likely to stimulate their anger. We will not forget that Zhang Qigang, a 14-year-old teenager from Bijie, Guizhou, took the three sisters to take the plight of the pesticide suicide. "A-star's "grab is like a custom" is shocking again" is an article I wrote many years ago. The protagonist A Xing was also a left-behind child, but his village was a village known as the “Chopped Party”. A Xing said that in their place, grabbing is like a custom. Almost all of the crimes of Astar are affected by the “robbery” environment.
The drifting era has aggravated the imbalance of the rural population structure, and also brought about the fracture of family and the loss of local identity, leading to the decline of the rural cultural ecology and "desertification." In particular, these children who have been left behind and dropped out of school have become social problems and may become black sheep.
In the drifting era, the left-behind children are like duckweed catkins. Who can come to smooth the pain caused by the growth?
Xiao Xi’s “drift” is to be with his parents. However, this kind of "drift" is very worrying. A person takes a car from the town to Nanchong, then changes to the car to reach the state, from Dazhou to Fuzhou, and then takes the bus to Putian. At 11 o'clock in the evening, Xiao Xi just sounded the mother's dormitory. The door is more than 2,000 kilometers. After her daughter was safe, Ms. Wu wrote in the WeChat circle: I want to say, bear child, thank you for being safe, you gave your parents the most important lesson, parents will reflect, it is our concern for you. Not enough, sorry, baby! Mom and Dad love you forever...
In fact, it is not just the couple who are reflecting on this. It is our society. It is thousands of people who are parents, because there are more than 60 million left-behind children in China. The more frequently a teenager is in contact with his parents, the lower his chances of learning bad. This is the conclusion of the Guangzhou Blueprint published by the Guangzhou Development Research Institute of Guangzhou University. (The New Express on September 6, 2015) The question is how much time more than 60 million left-behind children can get in touch with their parents. Most parents can only go back to the Spring Festival to reunite with their children. How many meals can they eat with their children in a year? rice?
This is a stinging news: "Shaoyang, Hunan is now "no mother in more than 130 children without mother", no mother's child like root grass, the place called Huang Jingxiang, only in the compulsory education stage students There are 132 children in the state of “lost mother” – except for the mother’s normal death, the mothers of 116 children left them because of fleeing or remarriage. (August 10, 2015, Yangcheng Evening News) Huang Jingxiang Nature The conditions are bad, and many villages have difficulty drinking water. The poverty of the locality is the main reason for these mothers to leave. The most distressing thing is that these “children who have lost their mothers” have lost a complete home and their happiness is where to find them. ?
The children of "no motherland" are drifting away, which is only a microcosm of a large number of left-behind children. More often than not, children in many places are also working outside their parents, living in a long-term stay, and in a state of "home is missing." Their parents can be said to be in the city and in the countryside. And they are in the countryside, the heart is in the city, because their parents are there. Do you want to go to the city where your parents work? Parents of left-behind children are wandering away from home to make a living in order to earn more money and have a better life for their children, but they have erased the desire of the left-behind children to complete the family. Can you not be embarrassed? We will not forget the lyrics in "There is only a mother in the world": "There are only mothers in the world, no mother's children like roots, leaving the mother's arms, where is happiness?" Those left-behind children whose parents are not around for a long time, not only Like root grass, lack of family, it is easy to learn bad, and embark on the road of crime.
I remember the writer Xu Zechen said when talking about his book "Jerusalem", the sense of drift, this should be the characteristics of modern people. What we are most concerned about is the city that cannot be integrated, and the hometown that cannot go back. However, I am more concerned about the left-behind children who are in this “wandering age” but “no home”.
How many of these left-behind children can be disciplined by grandparents? It should be said that rebellious children account for the majority. Because of the lack of complete family education, and the backward rural education resources, the education of children can be imagined. For children in critical period of growth, lack of parental companionship and discipline, the recognition of "home" and the maintenance of parental emotions will gradually weaken, it is difficult to form a healthy personality, easy to become indifferent and selfish, and serious Will tear, will become irreparable regret.
The education level is not enough, and the left-behind experience is in the forefront. This kind of atmosphere is more likely to stimulate their anger. We will not forget that Zhang Qigang, a 14-year-old teenager from Bijie, Guizhou, took the three sisters to take the plight of the pesticide suicide. "A-star's "grab is like a custom" is shocking again" is an article I wrote many years ago. The protagonist A Xing was also a left-behind child, but his village was a village known as the “Chopped Party”. A Xing said that in their place, grabbing is like a custom. Almost all of the crimes of Astar are affected by the “robbery” environment.
The drifting era has aggravated the imbalance of the rural population structure, and also brought about the fracture of family and the loss of local identity, leading to the decline of the rural cultural ecology and "desertification." In particular, these children who have been left behind and dropped out of school have become social problems and may become black sheep.
In the drifting era, the left-behind children are like duckweed catkins. Who can come to smooth the pain caused by the growth?
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